“My” love for “my” children pales in comparison to God’s Love, my love is fraught with conditions, and so instead I recognize/acknowledge the Father of Creation’s.
Parenting is easier when it’s handed over to God, when His Will is shared in the family home. This is really just allowing Self-Love over enforcing the rules of attachment love. When I allow Self Love to extend through me without resistance, I see only His Child, in mine.