When one blames a parent there is the refusal to release, and allow present Love to beget more Love. God is the ultimate target for all parental blame, for it is God’s Love that is Known by the release that is refused.
“For God said: ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death.’” Matthew 15:4
To honor one’s mother and father is to honor God’s creation and the way that He creates through two opposing polarities – male and female – coming together as One to make love manifest. To curse one’s father or mother is to curse the Mother-Father that is One and, to put one in a state of seeming apathy or inability to relate as part of creation. Parental blame begets a self-imposed death-by-refusal-of-Love, and a self-inflicted inability to participate in God’s Life.